tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6039209042045498633.post7224461586099285353..comments2011-09-25T09:55:08.221-07:00Comments on Bubbles. Deux.: No, There Is No Such Thing As "Too Soon"...Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12628179744337810796noreply@blogger.comBlogger14125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6039209042045498633.post-61808720745983241532011-04-14T14:33:12.988-07:002011-04-14T14:33:12.988-07:00@ChristyG: Gawd! I have no idea. I was thinking th...@ChristyG: Gawd! I have no idea. I was thinking that the other day. Plus, there is another Chris who reads and doesn't comment and I'm like: GAH! You're all getting color coded.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12628179744337810796noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6039209042045498633.post-24657692532887492692011-04-13T17:32:00.693-07:002011-04-13T17:32:00.693-07:00How are you ever going to keep all the Christy, Kr...How are you ever going to keep all the Christy, Kristi & Chris' apart.<br /><br />I'm one of them and I get confused !Christy Ghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14353439335439738363noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6039209042045498633.post-51171123081656936652011-04-12T16:08:29.076-07:002011-04-12T16:08:29.076-07:00@Kristi: Your mom = smart woman! I agree, I'l...@Kristi: Your mom = smart woman! I agree, I'll take passion and heartache over a dull life without love. Maybe that's why I write? You know, just to have an outlet of some kind.<br /><br />So I only go sort of nuts. :)<br /><br />@Sati: No sniffles. Not until later.<br />I think you are right. When "The One" said the "Love" word, I wanted to run away. He did it while Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12628179744337810796noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6039209042045498633.post-35017957086520520702011-04-12T08:03:29.828-07:002011-04-12T08:03:29.828-07:00I'm glad you're finally getting to tell th...I'm glad you're finally getting to tell this story. Hugs.Christyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09933781691298172817noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6039209042045498633.post-34322153740928931312011-04-12T07:41:12.899-07:002011-04-12T07:41:12.899-07:00Ahhhhhh! The "don't love me" talk. ...Ahhhhhh! The "don't love me" talk. I remember it very well when it happened to me. I can almost give you the exact words and his look when I told him not to get attached. I had already fallen but I was terrified of the feeling so I ignored it. We don't get to run away. One of these days we will learn to stand up and face our fears. Let's hope anyway.Atlanta_Redhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04255931790348358157noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6039209042045498633.post-5063880855390605152011-04-12T04:01:16.473-07:002011-04-12T04:01:16.473-07:00Good lord Arty called me philosophical make her st...Good lord Arty called me philosophical make her stop !!!<br /><br />I feel like as your friend I give you practical advice and may come off cold.<br /><br />Just about a year ago I met a woman and it had all the classic signs. I recognized them and continued anyway with eyes wide open and still got bit HARD !! It was the last of what have been several instances of poor decisions on my part when IChrishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06051192451551411526noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6039209042045498633.post-56482921788869740952011-04-11T22:48:51.614-07:002011-04-11T22:48:51.614-07:00A) Ummm...who knew Chris was such a for real philo...A) Ummm...who knew Chris was such a for real philosophical and romantic dude. I said it.<br /><br />B) It's interesting. With my man, I totally did not want to even consider doing a 3 month thing. I was like "I am not playing if we are not going to be together regularly". I was not about to devote myself to someone I was seeing so little of. Luckily, we were on the same page.<Artemis Jhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04218188282798426826noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6039209042045498633.post-51908852944981128912011-04-11T18:23:01.789-07:002011-04-11T18:23:01.789-07:00What Smarty said. I think she too was mad at me w...What Smarty said. I think she too was mad at me when I first said "I love you." Maybe not mad but skeptical, cautious, unsure . . . And once every couple of months quickly became once a month, then once every two weeks and now whenever possible is not enough.Benadarhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05346162263604222769noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6039209042045498633.post-34559949130466375232011-04-11T17:32:28.124-07:002011-04-11T17:32:28.124-07:00Yeah like I know about gardening either lol
It ma...Yeah like I know about gardening either lol<br /><br />It may be a tree but it's for us to discover for ourselves whether that tree will build deep roots in our lives or shade out the sun for a potential new sunrise. If it's rooted and strong and healthy then it's a wondrously beautiful thing. If it's roots aren't solid it has the potential to blow over in a strong wind and Chrishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06051192451551411526noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6039209042045498633.post-75377384088237874422011-04-11T17:12:45.609-07:002011-04-11T17:12:45.609-07:00@Chris:
You get answered first because you made m...@Chris:<br /><br />You get answered first because you made me think about something that happened early on. Plus, it is hard to write about things after the fact sometimes.<br /><br />When Chato first said "I love you" I was mad at him. He knew I wasn't in a position to accept it. I tried to keep boundaries because it seemed like that was what was supposed to happen.<br /><br />ThenAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12628179744337810796noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6039209042045498633.post-40834380739942338412011-04-11T17:04:35.679-07:002011-04-11T17:04:35.679-07:00I was talking to a friend awhile back and she said...I was talking to a friend awhile back and she said to me I'd go anywhere on the face of the planet for love. My questions to her was..was it for love or the concept of it with a person. At times it seems that the desire to love outweighs the practical concept of who and how. Love is most definitely conditional and not emotional. Certain conditions should be considered before love can truly Chrishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06051192451551411526noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6039209042045498633.post-56392899205979964942011-04-11T16:26:42.199-07:002011-04-11T16:26:42.199-07:00When I first read the headline, I thought why is s...When I first read the headline, I thought why is she writing about a blogger bash on here?<br /><br />Second, reading you makes me realize that anything I do has already been done by you, but better. <br /><br />I tried to pull the "three-month visit card," too. Lasted a day :)BenSmartyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06358677819527929007noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6039209042045498633.post-6761408580870572282011-04-11T14:06:00.911-07:002011-04-11T14:06:00.911-07:00*sniffling*
Yes.
Sometimes I wonder if that draw...*sniffling*<br /><br />Yes.<br /><br />Sometimes I wonder if that drawing back at the beginning of a relationship is instinct's way of saying, you know this is going to end badly, and leave you broken. And then it all seems so perfect that we forget that initial feeling.<br /><br />But then I do it anyway. And I often feel like I have little choice. Like this is going to happen, whether I Satihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10822371598137269825noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6039209042045498633.post-3113585387197533922011-04-11T13:54:26.103-07:002011-04-11T13:54:26.103-07:00My mother once told me that the draw back to being...My mother once told me that the draw back to being an emotional person is that we feel the hurts as deeply as the joys. Yeah. Smart woman, her.<br /><br />The alternative? Life without passion and pain and love and joy. Ain't gonna happen. We learn to deal, eh?Kristihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00984173492561834285noreply@blogger.com